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Mine is really my fault tho, i guess i fucked up too many times. I met her Feb 14 when waiting for my girlfriend (now ex) at hall 2 car park (University of Benin) for almost 4hours. She was a Muslim and me a Christian. Asked her out and on Feb 20 we started dating. I was in love with her and am still in love with her 🙊. Well we dated for two years and i broke up with her 5 times within the 2yrs of our dating due to insecurities and the religious difference. I guess my last break up with her made her angry and we couldn’t come back together.– Phil

It faded. We faded. After a year and 5 months, we stopped quite having things to say to each other. Now, we haven’t gone through with the breakup entirely but … There’s really nothing left. We are both just holding on to something that’s long gone.
We had a fight, he stopped talking to me, I stopped talking to him. We’re just there now. It’s been weeks – Anonymous

We dated for 20 months only for him to tell me one fateful day that, his family won’t accept me cos am from another tribe. I saw my crush who just got back to town. long story short, I asked him our for a drink, he obliged me, went on several dates. forward to 2019, am dating my Crush. No issues, am happy, he’s happy. 😁 – Joyce

When I was in my 100l I was dating this girl from unilag. We had planned that she would visit Benin that week but on that said day I called her by 7pm to ask if she was around and she told me she couldn’t make it again. I was disappointed but I didn’t mind, I was trying to continue the phone call but she told me she was busy.
I had originally borrowed my guy’s place cause I stayed at hall v then. When I got to the hostel around 9pm one hostel guy was asking if I knew my friend was around (he didn’t know I was dating her)
I told him she wasn’t but he argued that she was around and with her boyfriend, that he just left them sef because the guy wan knack🙆🏾‍♂
I refused to believe o, called the guy a liar in my mind.
The next morning I went to drown my sorrow in Mat ice ice-cream and just guess who I saw😑😑
my “babe” and her boyfriend, I hid my face and called her, asked her what she was doing and she said she was in her hostel in school (unilag)
I walked to the table and when the guy asked who I was, she said I’m a friend…i walked outta mat ice in pain and I haven’t trusted women ever since.
The most painful part is I didn’t buy the ice cream again😒 – Baeish

We dated for 7 months, I made her the queen of my world, introduced her to all of my friends, went to church, the beach, parties and even her family get together cause i was friends with her elder bro. 3 months into the relationship, she said i don’t act like we’re dating, that wen we see in church (cause I’m almost always in church since i work there as the Tech man), i don’t act like we’re dating and in my mind I’m like (e be like you want make dem sack me so i no go dey see small small money to flex you) After all tho, she said she wanted a break up. I cried tho but allowed her. The next day she started calling me, saying she was sorry and stuffs.I loved her so i agreed.Now the respect my friends had for her dropped, when we were 5 months, she broke up again, saying i don’t always have her time. (I won’t lie, i was a busy person but for every 5hours of my time i gave her, i had only 6 to spare.)
This time i promised myself i wasn’t going to accept her back, but that same night she rang my phone 30times and left text, saying she was very sorry, i replied none and wen it got to 78missed calls and 20 texts, she called with my friends phone and i was shocked to hear her voice. Anyways we made up and had sex for the first time in our 5 months relationship. After that we were good for the 2 months until her (breakup spirit) came again.
I got furious this time, twas July (her birth month) i got her gifts, and asked to celebrate her birthday with her on a date but she gave an excuse which i understood. 20days after her birthday she said she needed space, and time (guess twas mood swing) but she lost me in the process tho, 😥. She kept sending people to beg me for the next one month, which i refused. And that was it. In October she got into another relationship, had sex with me December (poor guy) and kept telling me how she regret leaving me for the next 1year and four months i was single. I’m currently in a 4 months relationship with a girl who spends 1k transport every week to spend time with me and buy me gifts ( I do the same tho) and my ex told me she’s become a sex toy in the hands of her new boyfriend cause they have sex like 5times in a day.I’m glad she chased me to my promise land. 😂😹😹
– Gilbert

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